(From a project in progress)
Fifteen
months or more after CTR and Maria married, CTR’s father and Maria’s sister
followed suit. Joseph Lytle, approaching 67, was to marry Maria’s younger
sister, Emma, aged 24, in mid-1880.
It
may seem strange to modern readers that there could be such a disparity in
ages, although it still happens on occasion. In the world of 19th-century
America, it was not uncommon for a widower to marry someone younger, and for a
younger woman to choose such a marriage for financial stability and security.
Emma, as her life later showed, was certainly very concerned about financial
security.
There
were other factors, too, that may have contributed to this marriage. Charles
and Joseph were very close. Maria and Emma were very close. Charles and Maria
had just gotten married. At the time, they all shared the same strong religious
convictions. Those convictions included strong beliefs about the near future,
specifically 1881, a year frequently mentioned in early Zion’s Watch Tower
magazines. As an example, from the December 1800 issue:
Soon, probably by, possibly before, the fall of 1881,
we shall be changed—born of the spirit [of which we are now begotten] into the
glorious likeness of our head.
Of
course, the way history worked out, they were not “changed” at all, but around
December 1880, Emma did fall pregnant with Mabel.
After
this introduction then discuss:
The marriage
date in mid-1880
The birth of daughter,
Mabel, in September 1881
Emma’s
previous education at Pittsburgh Female College
Then on to:
JOSEPH ON THE MOVE
With Mabel born and the family a threesome, Joseph withdrew
from business affairs in Pittsburgh and became a reasonably comfortable family
man and retiree.
Like others with sufficient income or capital, Joseph moved
the family down to Florida by the mid-1880s. Pittsburgh had below-freezing
winters, whereas Florida had winters when many would still eat outdoors. As a
result, winter was the tourist season for Florida. Conversely, summers in
Pittsburgh were pleasant, while summers in Florida were just too hot. If you
had good sense and sufficient resources, you would have homes both north and
south for different seasons of the year.
This is what Joseph and Emma did.
They first appear in the 1885
Florida census. Although there are some discrepancies in the recorded ages, the
entry is a reasonable match for this family. The census was taken in
Hillsborough County, Florida, with an official census date of 1 June 1885;
however, enumerators conducted door-to-door visits throughout June to complete
the details.
So we have Joseph L Russel (sic), who is the head and who
admits to being 70 (actually just a few weeks short of 72).
Then there is his wife, who, annoyingly for our purpose, is
only recorded as Mrs J L Russel (sic) aged 24 (actually 29), and finally a
daughter. The entry appears to read Mamie (?), which could be a pet name for
Mabel, listed as aged 4 (technically still 3). Joseph gives his occupation as
“Capitalist.”
The Florida connections are on firmer ground in 1888 when a
letter from Joseph was published in Zion’s Watch Tower for May 1888. It
offered general encouragement and the offer of land near Pinellas as a donation
to the Watch Tower Society. The letter was sent from Manatee County, Florida.
Manatee and Hillsborough are adjoining counties, and the
whole region is called Tampa Bay on the Gulf of Mexico coast.
A further letter from Joseph, published in the magazine for
March 1889 (sending love from himself and “joined by wife and Mabel”) was
addressed simply from Florida.
The idea of commuting north and south is supported by
several news reports from Florida newspapers.
The Manatee River Journal and Bradentown Herald for
26 September 1889 carried a letter to the editor from Joseph. It was dated 21
September 1889 and was sent from Allegheny, Pa. It was mainly about giving
support to proposed civic improvements. But Joseph ended his letter:
The same newspaper on 24 October 1889 welcomed the family
back:
The family either moved around a bit in the area, or had a
portfolio of several assets, because over 1889-1890, there were several
properties offered for sale by Joseph.
From the Semi-Weekly Times-Union of Jacksonville,
Florida for 17 January 1889:
The reason given for the sale was that Joseph was now too
old to attend to the orange groves.
Several similar advertisements appeared in the local papers
for either properties for sale, or house clearance of contents. Over a year
later, The Tampa Journal for 13 February 1890 carried a similar
advertisement:
FLORIDA HOME
FOR SALE: — On Manatee Bay Gulf Coast,
is high and dry; has been a lovely home for 30 years and is a most delightful
healthy climate; plenty of fish, oysters, boating, fishing and hunting, orange
groves, lemons, guavas, plums and grape fruit, all in full bearing; good
transportation; excellent society, churches and schools, good stores, daily
mail and the best climate on earth; County Court House is here. For terms
address, J. L. RUSSELL,
Bradentown, Fla.
Moving forward another nine months, Joseph appears to be
handling several Florida properties. From the Semi-Weekly Times Union of
Jacksonville, Florida, for 20 November 1890:
FLORIDA
HOMES FOR SALE.—A gentleman who has lived
several years in Florida, and who has traveled over most of the state, has
selected some of the most desirable and healthy locations on the Gulf Coast,
where there is plenty of fish and oysters, and excellent hunting and fishing
all the year through, and the most delightful climate in the world, where the
salt water breezes give health and strength to the delicate constitution. The
owner of these beautiful properties, wishes (on account of old age) to sell any
of these properties at a low price, and give long time to pay. For particulars
and description of properties, address Joseph L. Russell, Marion, North
Carolina.
Several things to note: Joseph again cites his age as the
reason for the sale, he seems to be after a quick sale with the “low price and
long time to pay” mantra, and he is no longer in Florida at this time, but in
North Carolina.
Depending on where in Marion, North Carolina, the family
was, this would be anything from 500 to 700 miles from the Gulf Coast, where
they’d been previously.
To pinpoint the next locations for Joseph and Emma, we can
turn to two daughters of Laura Raynor, one of Emma’s older sisters, who still
lived in Pittsburgh and whom we have met earlier.
The first daughter was Selina G Raynor. The Pittsburgh
Press for 8 August 1891 noted that:
Miss S G Raynor, of Euclid
Avenue, has returned from a visit to her aunt, Mrs J L Russell, of North
Carolina.
Joseph and Emma had been in Marion, North Carolina, where he
was trying to sell Florida properties (plural) in October 1890 (see above). In
1891, Joseph was also endeavouring to sell a property in Marion itself. From
the Semi-Weekly Times-Union of Jacksonville, Florida, for 28 May 1891,
we have Joseph’s small ad:
If we go forward another two years, we have Selina’s sister,
May Frances Raynor, who is now visiting her Aunt Emma. From The Pittsburgh
Press for 5 September 1893:
Miss May F. Raynor, of Euclid Avenue, Allegheny, who has been
spending the summer with her aunt, Mrs J. L. Russell, of Ashland, Va. Is now
registered at Deer Park, Md., and is expected home September 12.
The Russells (Emma and Joseph) are no longer at Marion,
North Carolina; now they are at Ashland, Virginia, “as the crow flies” about
300 miles away.
And what then happens to their home at Ashland? Two years
later, the Richmond Dispatch for 3 March 1895 carries a familiar-looking
advertisement:
Two things we learn from this.
First: Joseph was frequently selling (and one assumes
purchasing) homes. His last will and testament is full of investments in land,
and stocks, and shares, showing how he liked to speculate – not always
successfully. At the end of his life, he still owned four houses, three in
Pittsburgh and one in Florida.
Second: Joseph and Emma (and Mabel) seemed to be forever
moving from place to place, and never really settling down.
Towards the end, they retreated to Allegheny and Pittsburgh
and the home on Cedar Avenue where they’d begun married life, and Mabel went
off to Miss Barclay’s School for Girls in North Avenue, Allegheny City, to
complete an education. As noted in the previous chapter, CTR specifically
blamed Emma for Maria’s transformation. Whatever Emma’s influence may have
been, it would have depended upon continued personal contact between the two
women — contact CTR attempted to restrict. Testimony from the 1906 Russell vs.
Russell hearing indicates that he forbade Emma from visiting Bible House and
asked his father not to invite Maria to Cedar Avenue.
Sadly, as Joseph reached the end of his life, his home was
not a happy one. The family conflicts were to be exacerbated by his last will
and testament, with Maria taking up the cudgels on behalf of her sister, as
evidenced by her meeting with Page and Tuttle in the previous chapter.
Go on to discuss the will, its
background and provisions. To read the existing will in full, see:
https://jeromehistory.blogspot.com/2026/03/last-will-and-tetament-of-joseph-lytle.html